Enjoying every season of motherhood and now I have got an opportunity to look back myself as a mom by Tyane Milem from Boy Mom Blessed. Using the chance I am writing this post on explaining “How I’m rocking my motherhood in 10 different ways”. I know motherhood is not always a flower path and the days can be harder than we expect but at the end of the day all it matters is our kid’s well-being. Let’s get into the ways on how I’m rocking motherhood.
I’m trying to be a better Role-model:
My daughter is 20 months old loaded with complete naughtiness. As like every mom, I wish her to be a great human being when she grows up. Kids are initially inspired by their parents, so I decided to be a better role model. That’s how the blogger inside me was born. I really need my daughter to feel inspired in seeing me and the secret truth is my daughter inspired me for being a better mom.
I have Become a Learner :
Reading is always kind of a boring task to do and I couldn’t help me from falling asleep. Now the season has changed a bit. After my daughter was born I got more questions about parenting, so started reading articles related to that. Now I’ve become a learner and still learning by seeking information on the milestones my child reaches. Soon I hope to earn a Ph.D in Parenting 😉
I’ve become an effective Organizer :
If I plan to do a job my brain turns too pricky and never rests until I finish it off. I’m bit of obsessed with my work, sometimes I lose track of time and I know it’s not healthy.But that hes been come to an end after my daughter has taken the first place in my priority list.Yes,now I am a matured and effective organizer who can plan and work accordingly. Whatever the work may be from household chores to blog writing, all comes next to my daughter. I am there for her whenever she needs me and I’m so happy about it.
Unwavering Patience is on the way:
Honest truth about me ” I’m a short-tempered person” and always wondered about my Mom’s patience. Now I know the answer. My cute cuddly mischievous daughter often makes me angry especially meal time is overcrowded with her naughtiness but still I am managing to be patient and still working on it to make it stable. Not to mention,when she asks sorry shrinking her glowing big eyes any hard heart can melt in that moment.
I’ve become matured enough to look for Greater Good :
I’m so emotional in the way I couldn’t resist my tears on seeing some classic movies. But I’m very much sure on not involving my emotional mind on decisions related to my daughter. I’m ok with watching my daughter in tears than encouraging her to be adamant & accomplishing by crying. It was bit difficult to see my daughter crying but the patience had helped me with managing my daughter’s tantrums. I have become matured enough to look for greater good keeping my emotions aside and now my daughter can understand and accept the “NO for an answer”.
My baby is my working partner :
I will never leave my kid unaccompanied for accomplishing my own work. I use to interact with her on whatever task I do from cooking to DIY crafts. This helps me to finish my job soon than I expected and my daughter never miss me. She is my working partner and that’s how the companionship works successfully eventhough she doesn’t understands the context completely. This interaction part brings another goodness to my daughter. She is very much good at vocabulary and I can hear her speaking many new words.
I’ve become More Creative :
My fellow readers would know how much I’m interested on DIY crafts by following this blog. Being a creator I always wish to do something more unique for my daughter regardless of clothing or toys and that’s how I made her 1st birthday party so special.With a month’s planning, Jungle Theme DIY Bday Party was the upshot on surprising my kid.
No more hot coffee or meal :
I am a coffeeholic but still finding some chance to have it hot. I know, being a mom it sounds so rapacious. Definitely I miss my hot coffee but I don’t regret because I’m fine with giving my time to her rather than having my meal or coffee hot.
Sleeping Beauty to Insomnia :
Before my marriage I was a sleeping beauty who can sleep till noon skipping the breakfast. But after delivery my sleep cycle turned upside down. My daughter was bit colic on the initial months and I still remember walking across the room in the midnight holding my daughter in shoulders so that she can sleep for a while. As days passed my daughter started to sleep sound atleast for 2 – 3 hours continously. Unfortunately I had an insomnia attack and still working on to fall asleep on time. However, my kid stays healthy and sleeps sound and I’m so happy about it.
I encourage my little Dora – The Explorer :
I always believe kids who are allowed to explore grow up smart by self-learning than controlling them. My daughter is obviously our little Dora and I never control her on trying out something new unless it is not safe. That’s how my daughter has grown up so naughty and sportive. To the surprise she is 20 months old and never cries for seeking attention. She calls me and expresses the need if she really needs me.
That’s how I believe I rock motherhood and thanks for reading the post. Do you think you rock at motherhood? Share your reasons on How you are rocking motherhood with me in the comments below!!